Get clear. Get connected. Create relationships that work.

We help you cultivate aligned, authentic relationships — starting with the one you have with yourself.

Emotional intelligence training that helps you to break old patterns, create real connection, and build relationships that work.

Information isn’t the problem. Isolation is.

Most people aren’t stuck because they lack knowledge.
They’re stuck because they’re trying to apply that knowledge alone.

You can reflect. You can journal. You can think things through.
But you cannot see yourself clearly from inside your own perspective.

That’s why the same patterns keep showing up:

  • The same relationship dynamics

  • The same fears and hesitations

  • The same internal conversations that lead nowhere

Insight without interaction doesn’t create change.
It creates awareness without movement.

You don’t need more insight. You need an experience that changes how you see yourself.

You’ve read the books. You’ve done the work.
But the patterns running your life are still there—because you’re trying to change them on your own.

Real change doesn’t come from thinking harder.
It comes from stepping into experiences that reveal what you can’t see alone—and working through them in real time.

We Help You:

  • Get clear about your patterns, beliefs, and emotional reactions

  • Reconnect with what’s true for you and what matters most

  • Communicate with confidence, honesty, and empathy

  • Strengthen your relationships through awareness and aligned action

  • Build a life that reflects who you really are

This isn’t about fixing you. It’s about supporting you to know yourself, connect deeply, and live with clarity and intention.

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What is the Experience You’re Looking For?

Build self-awareness and self-trust, rekindle your passions and confidence, and regain the clarity you need to show up fully — in your relationships, your work, and your life.

Connect with Yourself

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Strengthen communication, develop closer connections, deepen understanding, and rekindle intimacy to create meaningful relationships — at home, at work, and in your community.

Connect with Others

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See your life with new clarity and choice. Whether you’re expanding, shifting, or redefining your direction, we help you move toward what’s authentic and aligned with what matters to you.

Connect with Possibility

Life Design Education doesn’t hand you a script — it helps you understand the one you’ve been living, so you can create the life you want to live.

Insight isn’t enough.
Most people aren’t stuck because they don’t understand themselves.
They’re stuck because understanding hasn’t translated into change.

You can reflect. You can journal. You can analyze your patterns. But you are still doing it from inside your own perspective.

And that’s the limitation.

That’s why the same patterns repeat:

  • The same relationship dynamics

  • The same fears and avoidance

  • The same internal loops that never fully resolve

Awareness without lived experience doesn’t create transformation. It creates recognition… without change.


This isn’t something you learn. It’s something you experience.


In our courses, you don’t sit back and take in information.

You step into carefully designed experiential exercises that bring your patterns to the surface—live, in real time.

You engage. You respond.
You see yourself through interaction, not just reflection.

Through guided experiences and shared work with others, things become visible that you cannot access on your own:

  • How you show up in relationships

  • Where you hold back or protect yourself

  • The patterns that quietly shape your decisions

And because it’s happening in real time, you don’t just understand it—you work through it in a way you have never experienced before.

Not through therapy. Not through coaching. Not through books, podcasts, and webinars.

With REAL people. In REAL time. Live, and in person.

That’s the difference our training makes. Actual, lived experience that creates a shift you can’t get on your own.

With over 40 years of experience, we’ve walked thousands of people through this process — supporting them to reconnect with themselves, deepen their relationships, and step into a more aligned, connected way of living.

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Part One: The Freedom Course

The Connections Course

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Our flagship emotional intelligence training, The Connections Course, is a three-part experiential journey that helps you understand yourself more deeply, strengthen your relationships, and live with greater clarity, confidence, and passion.

Whether you’re looking to improve communication, navigate emotional patterns, rebuild connection or intimacy with yourself or others, or live more authentically, this journey gives you the tools to create lasting change.

This immersive journey unfolds in three powerful stages.

Each stage builds on the last — and every participant begins at the same place: Part One: The Freedom Course.

Part One: The Freedom Course

2 nights and 2 full days | Live and In-Person

Freedom is the starting point of your journey — the phase we call Discovery & Awareness.

Part One of The Connections Course is a powerful 2-night, 2-day live, in-person experience focused on discovery and awareness. This is where you begin to understand why you do what you do.

Through experiential emotional intelligence work, you’ll uncover the patterns, beliefs, and habits that have been shaping how you show up in your relationships and your life—along with your strengths, values, and natural gifts. You’ll gain clarity about what’s been holding you back, what’s been guiding you unconsciously, and what’s now ready for your attention.

Freedom prepares you for the deeper work ahead by helping you see, with honesty and compassion, the work you get to do—so you can step into Part Two: The Life Design Course clear, grounded, and ready.

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Part Two: The Life Design Course

4 Full days | Live and In-Person

The Life Design Course is the breakthrough stage of the journey.

With the clarity gained in The Freedom Course, this phase of the journey moves beyond insight and into action. Here, you break through the rackets, stories, and excuses that have kept you playing small or stuck—and you begin to consciously choose what comes next.

Part Two is where you are reminded that you are not meant to do life alone—and that you are both shaped by, and a gift to, the people around you. And that your growth, your voice, and your choices matter in the lives of others. Together, we honor the past, celebrate the present, and invent the future—designing what comes next—as you step into fuller self-expression, deeper connection, and a renewed sense of possibility.

You’ll finish Part Two with momentum, alignment, and the experience of creating alongside others—supported, challenged, and celebrated as you break through together, on to Part Three: The Velocity Leadership Program.

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Part Three: The Velocity Leadership Program

90+ days | Integration & Practice

Part Three: The Velocity Leadership Program is a 90+ day, service and results-oriented immersion focused on integration and practice—where you apply what you’ve learned in Part One and Part Two consistently in your everyday life, relationships, and work.

This is a fully team-based leadership experience. You will be supported and championed by a group of people who share a common commitment: to follow through, produce real results, and support one another through to the completion of the course.

With hand-selected coaches, intention-setting coaching calls multiple times a week, a dedicated accountability buddy, and three live, in-person training weekends with Velocity Leadership Trainers—Velocity supports you in taking on meaningful goals across all major areas of life. Participants leave with measurable results and tangible proof that when commitment, intention, and support come together, extraordinary outcomes are possible.

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Real Stories. Real Transformation.

“I’ve never taken the opportunity to look so deeply within myself before to uncover what has been holding me back in life. This course not only allows for that, but gave me permission to take these discoveries about myself and dive even deeper to make real changes in my life.” — Stephanie R.

“There are no words to describe the feeling of people seeing you for who you really are, believing in you, and seeing your full potential in this world.” — Jess R.

“I peeled back so many layers, and I know I'm strong, and I was just hiding it ... I couldn't un-peel these layers without the support that was given to me during this course.” — B.J. P.

Ready to explore what’s possible for you?

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Beyond the Connections Course journey, Life Design Education offers additional trainings and experiences designed to deepen your growth, expand your leadership, and support the communities you care about.

• Online & Live Workshops + Events

• Corporate Leadership & Team Trainings

• Private Coaching & Customized Programs

• Specialized Community Events

More Ways to Work With Us

Meet the Owners

Daniel Paraszkay of Life Design Education
Kristen Bowers of Life Design Education

Life Design Education is led by founder Daniel Paraszkay and co-owner Kristen Bowers, who bring decades of experience in transformational training, leadership, and education. Their work blends clarity, emotional intelligence, and grounded experiential learning to help people create authentic, aligned relationships in every part of life.

If you’re ready for deeper clarity, connection, and possibility… your next step starts here.

Join the waitlist for the next Freedom Course, the first step in your Connections Course journey.